This new rule is trying to tell us that we should always remember peoples name because its important, just like we know our own name, then we should do the same. Remembering names can be a big part in your future. For example when you want to get a recommendation from a teacher but you don't remember their name, how are you suppose to put them down. Not remembering names also makes you look bad because people are expecting you to remember them, so that you can have a nice friendship. Other names that you should remember are your workplace, where you live (city, state, country etc.). I will apply this new rule into my life by always doing the best I can to remember names because maybe one day I may need them for help. If I don't remember someones name, then i will associate more with them. Now a days it should be easier to remember names when you add them as a contact on your phone, it gives you the option to put their name. The quote at the right is telling you why people don't like to remember names, simply because they just don't have the time/ energy or they make excuses for themselves. Some ways to remember names is by making a commitment, concentrate, repeat 





Rule 4:  Be a good listener. Encourage other to talk about themselves

          This new rules is trying to tell us that we should always pay attention when someone is talking to us, let them know that we care what their saying. Encourage others to tell you something about themselves because its important that we to know one another. As a matter of fact we should always be a good listener in school, at home, at work, and even when your in public. Ask question when you need to. I will apply this new rule into my life because I will always try my very best to be a good listener even when I may be stressed out or daydreaming. I also need to encourage myself and other to talk about themselves. Be a smart person and choose to do the right thing. The quote shown at the left is telling you how being a good listener encourages you to be curious about the speaker and that's a good thing because now you know another person. Go out there today and be a good listener and meet new people/ friends.




    This new rule is trying to tell us that we should try our best to make good conversations. For example if we want to become friends with someone new, then we should try to talk to them and ask then questions about themselves. It's always important that you let the other person talk before you do because it lets them know that you're actually interested in what their saying or about to say. Another thing is to not be rude or disrespectful, instead be nice and polite. I will apply this new rule into my life because I'm going to try my best to talk and actually care what others are saying to me. I will actually put in interest and time into the conversations that I'm in because it will also make me look good as a friend. The quote shown at the left is telling us that empathy is found in our self but we get it from another person. Meaning that if we actually pay attention when another person is talking, then we might find a connection with them. Be a good person and talk about them and how well of a person they are. Be engaged in one's story so that you can have 

           This new rule is trying to tell us that we should care for others because its important that we make them feel special or important. Because if we do this, then we might get the same thing in return. Also another thing is don't do it just because someone told you too but do it from your heart. An example of this would be,you go to your grandmas house and she's wants to tell you a story about your parents and you say yes. But don't do it just because your parents are in the room, but because you want to let your grandma know that you actually love and care for her. I will apply this new rule into my life because I'm going to let my mom know and feel how important she is to me. Without her and her words of choice I wouldn't be the person who I am now, which is being an honor student and learning how to play an instrument. My mom pushes me daily and encourages me to make something great in this life that I have been given. The quote at the left is telling you how you should be the person to make someone else fell important and worthy. Do it because you want to not because you're being forced to do it. 

      I think that the importance of setting goals is that you get to accomplish them and you're willing to be determined at all times. Setting goals gets your mind off things for a while and it lets your mind know that you're willing to accomplish these goals. Another thing about this is that you're leading yourself in the right path because you're choosing to do something healthy for you. An experienced I had was when I wrote down one goal and I told myself that this is impossible to do. But then I realized no it can't be hard because its a goal I'm setting and it has to be accomplished someday, whether it was today, tomorrow, next month, or in a year. But it was going to be done. Setting goals may sound dumb at first but if you really think about it there are many benefits to it. One benefit would be that it makes you successful, you think outside the box, it makes your life easier and so much more. Setting goals is a big accomplishment and I encourage you today to make your own goals and set your mind to them.